Tuesday

Independent Reading Assignment

Salman Rushdie says, “Literature is where I go to explore the highest and lowest places in human society and in the human spirit, where I hope to find not absolute truth but the truth of the tale of the imagination and of the heart.” People around the world discover the adventures and disadvantages while believing in them when they have a relationship. A number one national bestseller book called Around The Way Girls by Dwayne S. Joseph, Angel Hunter, and La Jill Hunt writes three different short stories on young teenagers’ life thinking they know it all but are about to get the lessons of heirs lives.
Living in the ghettos in Brooklyn is not east especially Crown Heights. Everyone got something to say about people that lives and hangs out there. Well Sydni, Angel, and Cream live in Crown Heights but to them it is just a place they call home. Cream White is her real name and is the mother of one name Shacquille, the son of the six years old of Wise. Cream’s mother died of Aids when she was thirty-one and Cream was sixteen. Her mother caught it from her long term boyfriend. Cream never knew her father, only his name which was Lewis. There was no one Cream can step up to after when her mother died and she had to raise her cousin Shala. Shala’s mother was in jail for armed robbery. The rest of the family lived down South.
They were poor in cash but rich in love. When her mother died, Cream often thought she would fall through it. So many nights she just wanted to give up. But Cream knew she had to make a decision herself and Shala, who was still a toddler. It was either be on their own or go to foster care, and that she did not want to do that. She can just imagine her and Shala being separated and sent to abusive families. So many bad things could happen in the system, and she did not want to find out. So she did what she did what she had to do and went to one of the local strip joint to see if she would qualify for a job. She would overhear some girls on the train talking about how much money they made from stripping. “Girl, I made over two hundred dollars in three hours. Shit, that is not anything. Come to LaLa’s and you can double that, especially on a Friday night.”
Being a single mother and taking care of your little cousin, who is still a toddler is not easy. Especially when you are broke with no money and to make money you become a stripper to feed the family is not want you want to do in life. Everyone goes through depression when they lost someone they love the most. But you have to know that life goes on and that they are in a better place resting. So you have to pick yourself back up on track and do what you need to do and try not to think about the negative things. A lot of young teenagers these days are having sex without protection and that’s why young girls are pregnant or they have sine type of infection in their body. There is nothing wrong with having sex because it is normal and everyone need their needs. But you should have protection at all the time to keep yourself clean so that you would not catch anything in your body or even get worried whether your are pregnant or not. But being single mother or a single father is not easy. You have to support your baby because no o no else is going to do that. You would have to buy the things the baby need because your parents are not going to buy things for you unless you're lucky. Things would be the same anymore if you have a baby. You would not be able to do things that you use to do. For example, if you want to go out late, you can not because you have to watch your baby because I am pretty sure it would cry at night being hungry and wants milk. You’re dam right, no one wants to be with someone when they are young because you have a full life ahead of you, why stress about taking care of your baby. Have fun when you are still young. There is a lot of stress you would have when your get older in the future.
“I hate this place. I hate these wannabe thug ass niggas, I hate these wannabe fly ass girls. I hate this cold weather. Everyone wants to be someone important and really is not shit. I hate New York and I just want to go back home.” Sydni was only fifteen years old then and he had been miserable. Her mother had decided to move from Atlanta to Brooklyn after Sydni’s great-grandmother had passed away. Her mother sold the house after that happen, packed Sydni, her twelve-year old sister, Miriam, and her sixteen-year old brother, Aaron and they moved. Sydni’s father was from New York and even though she had a chance of running into him, if they headed up to Brooklyn. Now, her brother is dead, her sister is out of control, and to make it worse, her mother is about to get marry to a man that she do not like and can not stand.
I truly understand how Sydni is feeling because she use to live in the environment where she really like and was comfortable with. But everything changes once you move and you’re just not use to the surroundings. That’s why you have to try and adapt it. Some people go from a nice neighborhood to the ghettos or the other way around from the ghettos to a good neighborhood. For example, I live in Queens all my life and all of a sudden, my parents decided to move to upstate, which I call it farmland. There are no places to go unless there is then I do not know, without a car, you really can not go anywhere. If you had to walk, it would take forever or wait for the buses which they do not come often. I went to a new school where I did not know anyone and they all would give me looks and all that good stuff. It was really hard for me to adapt the environment. I took one whole year to get use to it. Everyone in upstate was so different from Queens. I like Queens a lot more than upstate. People just go to adapt their new environment and within a couple of months or a year, you would be fine.
Angel Santiago is a young fine girl and can get what she wants. Whenever she wants it and the way she wants it. The reason why is because she knows the key to the game, but not when she met Frido. No guys can do it like Frido, that’s why she really likes him. Until the end, she realized how stupid he was to be falling for his tricks. Angel thought they were going to be together forever. Frido gave her a heart necklace and she thought it was something special but how he really got the necklace was that he took it from some woman. To Angel, it was something special, and she took it really serious that she fell in love with him. She took it so far and so far, she made love to him. On the other side, while Frido was going out with Angel, Frido had another girl. When Frido was making love with Angel, Frido was recording it and Angel had no idea he was going to do that. Frido thinks he is the shit, showing off and thinks he is a player, player, he shows the tape to his boys and his friends of him and Angel making love to each other. So there was two weeks where Frido did not pick up any of her calls. Till one day Angel was just hanging out with her friends and saw him. She went up to him asking why he didn’t pick up the phone calls and all he said was that he was too busy. Next thing you know is that his boys was talking about it and making fun of Angel. Angel was so mad and upset that she wanted to hit him. After that, she hears a girl talking and hugging him. Angel was so mad and upset at the same time, she goes up to them and starts yelling at them and how they are going to fight and they really did.
Like I said, young girls should not be falling too deep for guys because you have the rest of your life to be finding someone. Have fun when you are still young because by the time you get old, you would not be able to do a lot thing you want to do. Players are always going to be players until they feel like they feel like it. If one plays you, go move on, don’t stick with you because there are a lot of guys out there that you treat you right or the last one that you went out with. Remember girls are more mature than guys a lot faster. No guys like to be with someone so long when they are young. We all like to have fun when we are young. If a guy would never fight over you, you shouldn’t fight for them because it is not worth it. Why waste your time and energy on someone that is not worth it. The most important thing when you are young is go to school and get that education so by the time you're out there living your life, you have a good job and you get paid well. Like I said, guys come and go.
Over all, this national bestseller book called Around the Way Girls by Dwayne S. Joseph, Angel Hunter, and La Jill Hunt explains how young teenagers try to grow up fast, thinking they are mature and have responsible with everything when they really don’t know what they are doing. Be smart and make the right choices.

Works Cited:
Joseph S. D, Hunter, A, Hunt J. L , pg. 24
Joseph S. D, Hunter, A, Hunt J. L , pg. 71

Thursday


REFLECTION!
Having Ms. Bova for two years in a row was difficult and interesting at the same time. That's why i pick her class for the seond year! I learned a lot throughout the years trying to make the essay paper perfect. She would give us a paper to do and you have to do it at the pages she wants you to do. We had great group discusstions debating on girls and guys and i got to say that she is the greatest story teller. Most of my work was well done and completed on time with a good grade so I am happy about that.! I thought it was a good idea to post bloggs up so you can review students work and their skills that they have. It was great year for me!

Wednesday


Kate Chopin


Kate Chopin wrote many stories and she wrote alot about women. She wrote about love, religion, and the power of sex within her characters. She also wrote poems and she wrote thirteen literary essays discussing opinions about literature which showed that she clearly took her writing seriously. Her stories had to do with women fighting for a feeling of belonging, love and a sense of individuality.

Monday


On the differences between men and women by Dave Berry

I find this story amusing to me. Considering this is how girls and guys think. We hardly ever get anything because guys never listen at all. They listen to what we say but they dont think about it depth like we do. Women tend to think too much into things, whereas guys minds are normally someplace else. Neither of the two ever asked each other what it was exactly they were doing with each other. With the lack of communication, Elaine felt completely different from what Roger was feeling. It is obviously that Elaine wants more with Roger but she does not know how to go about it. Without talking to each other about their relationship, it’s because Elaine to become confused at what was going on between her and Roger. She felt as if Roger was not interested and from Roger's perspective, everything was going fine and normal. In this situtation of course the man should have asked what was wrong, even if that meant her getting mad at him. A guy should never just agree to make the women happy if he has no clue what she's talking about.

Friday


"Can't We Talk?" (condensed from: You Just Don't Understand) by Deborah Tannen

After reading Ms. Tannen's articles i've noticed that alot of couples argue over the little things which gets into bigger arguements. Especially the situation where the women had a scar that she thought made her breast look weird and then the man suggested plastic surgery. She got angry but he wasn't saying he wanted her to get plastic surgery he was just giving her advice because if she was unhappy with it there was always an option. Women tend to seek support from their friends when men do not want support they want to show that they have the upperhand, the higher status. When a women asks a man whats on his mind and he says nothing i do agree it makes her upset because she's got planty of things on her mind, so what is he keeping from her? When in reality he just feels that its useless information that he doesntneed to share at his own home when he's comfortable. He might share something with a close friend outside of the home but he doesnt feel like he has to with his wife, someone who knows him and cares about him. A woman would be hurt to find out he was telling other people things and not her but she has to understand he isnt doing it to hurt her. It just comes down to the point that girls and guys will always think differently.

Monday


Differnces between how men and women socialize and communitcate.

Men have a firm sense of direction, they need to trace the game, catch it, and find the way home, while women can see what’s happening around the house, spot an approaching danger, they notice changes in the children’s behavior and appearance. Men’s brains are programmed to hunt, which explains their narrow range of vision, while women’s brains are able to handle a wider range of information.
Women have a type of communication that builds, maintains, and strengthens the relationship. Their communication is nurturing, has emotional expression, empathy, and support. While men are usually the experts in task accomplishment and addressing questions about facts. They analyze issues and solve problems. Their communication is competitive, lacking sentimentality, analyzing, and focusing aggressively on task accomplishment.
It is said that men and women communicate differently because growing up as children girls tend to play with a single friend which gives her alot of time to talk and spend time listening and understanding another person, while boys play in big groups often competeing for the leadership in the group which makes them competitive and makes them try and convince everyone they are better. this shows that boys growing into men use talking to emphasize status while girls growing into women use talking to make connections. Other people believe that different habits of men and women are explained by different roles in the process of evolution. Even though life conditions have changed, both men and women tend to follow their own biological programs.
One problem betwen men and women is that men expect women to think and feel what they think and feel and women expect men to think and feel what they are thinking and feeling. When this does not happen problems arise. If men and women could accept the fact that they are not the same problems wouldnt occur, but each sex always relies on the other one understanding them
Women and men sometimes perceive the same messages to have different meanings. In fact, it may be as a result of the differences in message interpretation that the "battle of the sexes" occurs. Women are normally the relationship specialists and men are the task specialists.



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http://www.coach.ca/WOMEN/e/journal/may2001/print_out.htm

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http://www-personal.umich.edu/~kruger/ep10.html

http://www.sandrabeckwith.com/articles/m-w-communicate.htm

Thursday

Websites

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http://marian.creighton.edu/~marian-w/academics/english/japan/geisha/art.html

http://www.japan-zone.com/culture/geisha.shtml

http://www.japaneselifestyle.com.au/culture/geisha.html

http://library.thinkquest.org/C001142/countries/japan.php

http://people.howstuffworks.com/geisha1.htm

http://www.phototravels.net/kyoto/geisha-maiko.html